I have to thank Apple. If my trusty old Ipod Classic hadn't died, I'd still be chained to this godawful program and this terrible company. Having this ridiculous, years old problem with the exorbitantly priced Ipod Nano that I bought as a replacement was the kick I needed to look for alternatives. And there are so many. I wont tell you what worked for me. Just know that with a little investment of time, you can be as free and in control as me.
Look at me, Apple, i am able to choose what podcasts are on my device, effortlessly, and cheaply. I have achieved the functionality of a flash drive. That this is all I wanted, and that Apple couldn't supply it to me is telling, I think.
Now all I have to do is pawn the Nano off to someone else and minimize my losses. Ebay, here I come.